You, Me and the Mystery
A Couples Journey into Love, Intimacy
& the Mystery of Relationship
November 7 & 8, 2026
“Your task is not to seek love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself
that you have built against it.” ~ Rumi
Relationship is one of life’s great mysteries.
To truly meet another human being is to enter a living landscape that is continually changing. No matter how long we have loved someone, there is always more to discover.
We fall in love and build a life together. As routines and responsibilities grow, the qualities that first drew us to one another can quietly recede: curiosity, tenderness, sensuality, play, wonder and the feeling of truly being seen.
You, Me & the Mystery is an invitation to step out of ordinary life for two days and turn toward one another again.
Not to fix one another or because something has to be wrong. But to create enough space to listen more deeply, speak more truthfully, deepen intimacy and rediscover the person beside you.
We believe intimate relationship is one of the most profound paths of self-discovery and spiritual growth available to us.
Our beloved can become a mirror, revealing not only our patterns and tender places, but also our longings, our capacities, our beauty and parts of ourselves that are still unfolding.
When we can meet these places with compassion rather than blame, something begins to open.
Relationship becomes less a place where we confine one another and more a place where each person is given room to flower.
We do not need to walk exactly the same path to love one another deeply. We can honour who the other is becoming while remaining true to ourselves, and still choose one another.
Nature as Our Teacher
Nature has much to teach us about relationship because we are Nature.
Earth, Water, Fire, Air and Ether are not simply ideas or metaphors. They are living qualities moving through our bodies, emotions, temperaments, desires and ways of relating.
Earth teaches us how to ground and belong.
Water teaches us how to soften, feel and flow.
Fire brings passion, truth and transformation.
Air brings movement, possibility and freedom.
Ether creates the spaciousness in which we can truly hear one another.
Ayurveda & Relationship
Through the ancient wisdom of Ayurveda, we will explore practical ways to understand the unique nature each of us brings into relationships - our temperament, needs, rhythms and ways of responding.
What feels like intensity may be passion. What seems like withdrawal may be a need for space. What appears as stubbornness may be a need for stability.
Understanding our differences allows us to meet one another with greater curiosity, compassion and appreciation.
What We Will Explore
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The Elements Between Us
Discover how Earth, Water, Fire, Air and Ether shape your unique ways of loving, feeling, communicating and connecting.
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The Wisdom of Your Differences
Explore your Ayurvedic constitutions and discover how understanding your different natures can deepen compassion and appreciation.
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The Body Knows
Experience embodied practices of breath, movement, touch and sensory awareness that invite greater presence and intimacy.
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Listening Beneath the Words
Learn to hear what is really being expressed and bring greater honesty, curiosity and compassion to your conversations..
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Keeping the Mystery Alive
Rediscover curiosity, tenderness, sensuality, play and the wonder of continuing to discover the person you love.
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Freedom Within Togetherness
Explore how to remain fully yourself while honouring the growth, individuality and unfolding of the person you love.
A Kind Place for Courageous Conversations
There are questions we sometimes avoid because ordinary life never seems to offer the right moment to ask them. There may be truths we hesitate to speak, longings we have stopped expressing, or simply a desire for greater intimacy.
This weekend offers a carefully held space to explore what matters with honesty, kindness and without judgment. Through guided conversation, eco-somatic movement, breath, sacred touch, sensory awareness and elemental practices, you will have time to listen, speak, reflect, play and simply be together.
This is not two days of talking about relationship. It is an experience of relationship.
Who Is This Weekend For?
For couples in long-term relationships and newer partnerships who sense there is more to discover together.
Perhaps you already share a loving relationship and want to deepen it. Perhaps busy lives have left less time for one another. You may be navigating change, longing for greater emotional or sensual intimacy, or simply wanting dedicated time to reconnect.
All that is required is curiosity, willingness and a desire to meet one another more fully.
What You Take Home
Our hope is that you leave with more than a beautiful weekend together.
A deeper understanding of yourself and the person you love. Greater capacity to listen and communicate when things become difficult. More freedom to be yourselves while remaining deeply connected. A renewed sense of tenderness, curiosity and possibility.
Because no matter how long we have loved someone, there is always more to discover. More of yourself. More of your beloved. More of what is possible between you.
You, Me & the Mystery is an invitation to keep discovering together.
Guided by Lorenna & Shantree
Lorenna Bousquet Kacera and Shantree Kacera have shared 30 years of marriage, love, work, creativity and spiritual life together. For most of those years, they have also worked side by side, learning how to remain fully themselves while continually meeting who the other is becoming.
Their relationship has asked for honesty, humour, tenderness, courage and the willingness to listen when it would be easier to defend. They know from experience that there is no formula for relationship. Relationship is a journey. Like Nature, it is alive.
Together, they bring decades of experience in eco-somatic practice, Ayurveda, Earth wisdom and human consciousness. They offer You, Me & the Mystery not simply from what they have studied and taught, but from what they have lived together.
Nov 7 & 8, 2026
Saturday 9:30 am - 9:00 pm
Sunday 9:30 am - 5:00 pm
“Your task is not to seek love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”
— Rumi
Relationship is one of life’s great mysteries.
To truly meet another human being is to enter a living landscape that is continually changing. No matter how long we have loved someone, there is always more to discover.
We fall in love and build a life together. As routines and responsibilities grow, the qualities that first drew us to one another can quietly recede: curiosity, tenderness, sensuality, play, wonder and the feeling of truly being seen.
You, Me & the Mystery is an invitation to step out of ordinary life for two days and turn toward one another again.
Not to fix one another or because something has to be wrong. But to create enough space to listen more deeply, speak more truthfully and rediscover the person beside you.
Event Details
Date: Nov 7 & 8, 2026
Time: Saturday 9:30 - 9 pm - Sunday 9:30 - 5 pm
Cost: $650 per couple
Location:The Living Centre, London, ON
Includes access to all sessions.
An Elemental Constitutional Chart
Three organic, high-frequency plant-based meals
Accommodations are available at an extra cost. Please inquire.