Romanced by the Elements:
Awaken the Sacred Union Within & Between
A Couples Retreat
Costa Rica | January 15 to 20, 2027
“Your task is not to seek love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” ~ Rumi
Romanced by the Elements invites you to step out of the busyness of everyday life for six days and turn toward one another again.
Not because something is wrong or needs fixing, but because every relationship needs space to breathe, deepen and come alive again. A chance to listen more closely, speak more truthfully, deepen intimacy and rediscover the person beside you.
Held in the lush, sensual beauty of Costa Rica, we turn to warm waters, radiant sunshine, gentle winds, nourishing food and the living Earth herself. Nature becomes part of the journey, inviting us to soften, open our senses and remember that relationship, like everything alive, needs attention and nourishment.
We are welcoming just five couples, keeping the circle small and spacious so there is time to slow down, connect and truly be with one another.
Through Ayurveda, eco-somatic practices, nature connection, river immersions, fire circles and everyday rituals to strengthen communion, we explore new ways of meeting one another with greater presence, understanding, playfulness and joy. Ayurvedic insights into your individual constitutions offer another window into why you each move through life differently, and how those differences can become a source of understanding rather than distance.
Guided by Lorenna and Shantree, partners in love, life, and work for more than thirty years, Romanced by the Elements invites you to fall in love with the mystery of each other again.
You Will Experience
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The Elements Between Us
Discover how Earth, Water, Fire, Air and Ether shape your unique ways of loving, feeling, communicating and connecting.
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The Wisdom of Your Differences
Explore your Ayurvedic constitutions and discover how understanding your different natures can deepen compassion and appreciation.
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The Body Knows
Experience embodied practices of breath, movement, touch and sensory awareness to relieve stress, balance powerful emotionals and open new channels of intimacy
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Listening Beneath the Words
Learn to hear what is really being expressed and bring greater honesty, curiosity and compassion to your conversations.
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Keeping the Mystery Alive
Learn everyday rituals to help you reawaken curiosity, tenderness, sensuality, play and the wonder of continuing to discover the person you love.
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Freedom Within Togetherness
Explore how to remain fully yourself while honouring the growth, individuality and unfolding of the person you love.
Retreat Information
We will welcome five couples into this intimate journey to ensure depth, privacy, and personalized guidance throughout.
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January 15 to 20, 2027
This daily flow offers a general outline of the retreat experience; specific timing and content will shift to honour the group's unique rhythms, needs, and dynamics.
Our days follow an intentional rhythm, creating space for couples to explore what they want to deepen, shift, or renew in their relationship. Each day offers guided practices, meaningful time together, and enough spaciousness for what arises to be felt, understood, and integrated.
Day 1 begins at 4:00 pm, with time to arrive, settle in, share dinner, and gather for our opening evening.
Mornings begin with breakfast, followed by movement, breath, meditation, or other practices to help us arrive fully in the day.
Morning sessions weave together group exploration, solo reflection, and partner practices.
Lunch and early afternoon offer open time to rest, swim, walk, journal, or spend quiet time together.
Afternoon sessions continue the day’s theme through experiential practices, conversation, nature, and the elements.
Evenings are more spacious after dinner, with ceremony, fire, sound, movement, intimate partner time, or simply being together beneath the stars.
Day 6 closes after lunch, giving us a final morning to integrate the experience and gather together before the journey home.
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The Six-Day Journey
Each day of Romanced by the Elements is shaped around one of the five elements, creating a natural progression from grounding and trust into emotional intimacy, passion, shared vision, and integration. The schedule offers a spacious rhythm of guided practices, time in nature, nourishing meals, rest, and time together as a couple.
Day 1 — Arrival & Opening the Heart
Setting the Sacred Container
Arrive, settle into the beauty of the eco-village, and begin slowing into a different rhythm. The opening evening is devoted to presence, intention, and creating a meaningful foundation for the days ahead.
Welcome with tropical herbal elixirs
Gentle eco-somatic practice to arrive in the body and the land
Opening circle and couple intention setting
Five Elements blessing of your relationship
Evening firelight ritual
Day 2 — Earth
Trust, Stability & Rooted Connection
Earth brings us into the foundations of relationship: safety, trust, dependability, presence, and the experience of feeling grounded with another person. Through movement, Ayurveda, and partner practices, couples begin exploring the ways they support one another and where greater steadiness may be invited.
Grounding partner movement and mutual support practices
Eco-somatic Earth ritual
Ayurvedic exploration of individual and shared constitutional qualities
Partner body-mapping and embodied awareness
Communication practices for greater clarity, listening, and trust
Time to rest, walk, and enjoy the natural surroundings
Day 3 — Water
Emotional Intimacy, Sensuality & Flow
Water invites softness, feeling, receptivity, and the capacity to move together through change. This day explores emotional intimacy and the subtle ways couples protect themselves, reach toward one another, and rediscover tenderness.
Breath and movement to awaken emotional presence
Guided river experience and Water ritual
Exploration of emotional patterns within relationship
Ayurvedic perspectives on emotional digestion and balance
Restorative partner touch
Guided couple dialogue and deep listening
Spacious time together in nature
Day 4 — Fire
Passion, Vitality & Devotion
Fire brings warmth, attraction, courage, creativity, and transformation into relationship. The day invites couples to explore desire, boundaries, playfulness, personal power, and the living energy that keeps relationship vibrant.
Dynamic eco-somatic movement and shaking practices
Exploration of Agni, the Ayurvedic principle of inner fire
Practices for sensual presence and embodied vitality
Partner explorations of attraction, polarity, and difference
Conscious work with boundaries and desire
Evening fire ceremony devoted to love, truth, and renewal
Day 5 — Air & Ether
Shared Vision, Spaciousness & Sacred Connection
Air and Ether open the relationship beyond familiar patterns and into possibility. This day creates space to listen more deeply, imagine together, and explore what the relationship itself may be asking to become.
Morning breathwork and gentle movement
Practices in conscious communication and deep listening
Guided couple visioning
Ayurvedic insights for supporting each other’s individual nature
Eco-somatic Ether practice and contemplative time
Creating shared intentions for life beyond the retreat
Closing circle, gratitude, and elemental blessings
Day 6 — Integration & the Journey Home
Carrying the Experience Forward
The final morning is devoted to gathering what has been discovered and bringing it into everyday life. Rather than leaving the retreat as a beautiful experience that quickly fades, couples are invited to identify simple practices, agreements, and intentions they can continue at home.
Morning gratitude and integration practice
Couple reflection and shared commitments
Practical ways to carry the elemental teachings into daily relationship
Nourishing farewell meal
Closing blessing for the journey ahead
The retreat begins at 4:00 pm on Day 1 and concludes after lunch on Day 6. The daily rhythm remains intentionally flexible so there is room to respond to the weather, the natural environment, and the needs of the group.
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Registration Details:
Deposit Requirements:
A deposit of $1000.00 US is required upon registration to secure your spot.
Final payment is due; see below
Payment in USD can be made through PayPal, E-transfer at info@thelivingcentre.com or Wise
For more information, contact
Email info@thelivingcentre.com
WhatsApp number: 519-652-9109
We're here to guide you every step of the way!Cancellation Policy:
45 days or more before the retreat: Full refund of any payments made (minus a $200 US cancellation fee).
30 to 45 days before the retreat: 50% refund of total payment.
Less than 30 days before the retreat: No refunds will be issued.
3. Transfer Policy:
Participants may transfer their registration to another person up to 30 days before the retreat. Notification must be given in writing.
4. Special Circumstances:
A partial refund may be considered on a case-by-case basis in the event of an emergency or illness.
5. Retreat Cancellation:
If the organizer cancels the retreat, all payments will be refunded in full.
6. Changes to the Policy:
The organizer reserves the right to amend this policy. The organizer will communicate any changes to participants.
What You Take Home
We want you to leave with more than a beautiful six days together.
A deeper understanding of yourself and the person you love. Greater capacity to listen and communicate when things become difficult. More freedom to be yourselves while remaining deeply connected. A renewed sense of tenderness, curiosity and possibility.
Because no matter how long we have loved someone, there is always more to discover. More of yourself. More of your beloved. More of what is possible between you.
Romanced by the Elements is an invitation to keep discovering together.
What’s Included
All-Inclusive 6-Day Couples Retreat
Pricing includes accommodations, meals, and full retreat programming for one couple.
Early Bird: USD 3,800 before Dec 1, 2026
Regular Rate: USD $4,600 after Dec 1, 2026
Payment plans available.
Retreat Package Includes:
6 days and 5 nights in eco-luxury accommodation
3 organic tropical plant-based meals daily
All workshops, ceremonies & tours
Personalized Ayurvedic constitutional chart & evaluation
One private couples session with Lorenna and Shantree during the retreat
A 1.5-hour post-retreat integration session
Optional Add-Ons:
Therapeutic massage
Lorenna & Shantree
Co-Guides of Romanced by the Elements
Partners in Life, Love, and Sacred Work for 30 Years
For three decades, Lorenna and Shantree have lived, worked, danced, cried, dreamed, and created side by side, devoting their lives not only to conscious relationship but to the evolution of love itself as a sacred path. Their shared life is rooted in Earth-based wisdom, Ayurvedic principles, and a profound commitment to remembering our interconnectedness with nature and one another.
Together, they’ve grown a partnership that is alive with kindness, humour, passion, and vision, not because it’s been without challenge, but because they’ve learned how to meet each other in the tender, raw places. Through seasons of transformation, they’ve cultivated the courage to stay present, to listen deeply, and to gently nudge one another toward the fullness of who they are meant to be.
Whether tending the garden, facilitating a ceremony or supporting a couple through a moment of breakthrough, Lorenna and Shantree hold a rare and embodied wisdom, an understanding of sacred union as something not fixed, but alive and always becoming. Learn More
Stories of Transformation
✺ Frequently Asked Questions ✺
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This retreat is for couples of any age, orientation, or stage in their relationship who feel called to deepen their connection, nourish their intimacy, and grow together through guided practices rooted in nature, love, and presence.
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You’ll experience a blend of eco-somatic movement, sacred rituals, guided partner exercises, Ayurvedic teachings, breathwork, and heart-centered dialogue. All practices are designed to be nourishing, experiential, and accessible.
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While the retreat supports emotional and energetic intimacy, it is not focused on sexual practices. The experience is about cultivating trust, communication, presence, and a deeper connection with yourself, your partner, and the Earth.
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Travel to and from the retreat centre is not included in the retreat price. We will provide detailed travel recommendations and support you in planning your journey.
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This is an intimate retreat limited to five couples. We’ve chosen to keep the group small to ensure personal attention, spaciousness, and a deeply held container for transformation.
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Yes. The schedule is intentionally spacious, with time for reflection, rest, and connection with the land. You are also welcome to enjoy optional massages or private sessions.
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It’s not uncommon for one partner to feel hesitant. We invite both of you to have an open conversation, and if needed, we’re happy to speak with you directly to help clarify whether this retreat feels aligned for your relationship.
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You’ll receive a detailed welcome package with packing suggestions. In general, bring comfortable clothes, a journal, any personal items, and an open heart.
Still Have Questions?
If your hearts feel a gentle pull yet you’re unsure how to answer it, we invite you to connect with us. Share your questions, curiosities, or hesitations. We will listen with care and help you discern whether this journey of love and renewal is the right path for you and your partner.

