Romanced by the Elements:

 Awaken the Sacred Union Within & Between

A Couples Retreat

Costa Rica | January 15 to 20, 2027

“Your task is not to seek love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” ~ Rumi

Romanced by the Elements invites you to step out of the busyness of everyday life for six days and turn toward one another again.

Not because something is wrong or needs fixing, but because every relationship needs space to breathe, deepen and come alive again. A chance to listen more closely, speak more truthfully, deepen intimacy and rediscover the person beside you.

Held in the lush, sensual beauty of Costa Rica, we turn to warm waters, radiant sunshine, gentle winds, nourishing food and the living Earth herself. Nature becomes part of the journey, inviting us to soften, open our senses and remember that relationship, like everything alive, needs attention and nourishment.‍ ‍

We are welcoming just five couples, keeping the circle small and spacious so there is time to slow down, connect and truly be with one another.

Through Ayurveda, eco-somatic practices, nature connection, river immersions, fire circles and everyday rituals to strengthen communion, we explore new ways of meeting one another with greater presence, understanding, playfulness and joy. Ayurvedic insights into your individual constitutions offer another window into why you each move through life differently, and how those differences can become a source of understanding rather than distance.

Guided by Lorenna and Shantree, partners in love, life, and work for more than thirty years, Romanced by the Elements invites you to fall in love with the mystery of each other again.

You Will Experience

  • The Elements Between Us

    Discover how Earth, Water, Fire, Air and Ether shape your unique ways of loving, feeling, communicating and connecting.

  • The Wisdom of Your Differences

    Explore your Ayurvedic constitutions and discover how understanding your different natures can deepen compassion and appreciation.

  • The Body Knows

    Experience embodied practices of breath, movement, touch and sensory awareness to relieve stress, balance powerful emotionals and open new channels of intimacy

  • Listening Beneath the Words

    Learn to hear what is really being expressed and bring greater honesty, curiosity and compassion to your conversations.

  • Keeping the Mystery Alive

    Learn everyday rituals to help you reawaken curiosity, tenderness, sensuality, play and the wonder of continuing to discover the person you love.

  • Freedom Within Togetherness

    Explore how to remain fully yourself while honouring the growth, individuality and unfolding of the person you love.

Retreat Information

We will welcome five couples into this intimate journey to ensure depth, privacy, and personalized guidance throughout.

‍ ‍What You Take Home

We want you to leave with more than a beautiful six days together.

A deeper understanding of yourself and the person you love. Greater capacity to listen and communicate when things become difficult. More freedom to be yourselves while remaining deeply connected. A renewed sense of tenderness, curiosity and possibility.

Because no matter how long we have loved someone, there is always more to discover. More of yourself. More of your beloved. More of what is possible between you.

Romanced by the Elements is an invitation to keep discovering together.

What’s Included

All-Inclusive 6-Day Couples Retreat
Pricing includes accommodations, meals, and full retreat programming for one couple.

Early Bird: USD 3,800 before Dec 1, 2026
Regular Rate: USD $4,600 after Dec 1, 2026

Payment plans available.

Retreat Package Includes:

  • 6 days and 5 nights in eco-luxury accommodation

  • 3 organic tropical plant-based meals daily

  • All workshops, ceremonies & tours

  • Personalized Ayurvedic constitutional chart & evaluation

  • One private couples session with Lorenna and Shantree during the retreat

  • A 1.5-hour post-retreat integration session

Optional Add-Ons:

  • Therapeutic massage

Lorenna & Shantree

Co-Guides of Romanced by the Elements
Partners in Life, Love, and Sacred Work for 30 Years

For three decades, Lorenna and Shantree have lived, worked, danced, cried, dreamed, and created side by side, devoting their lives not only to conscious relationship but to the evolution of love itself as a sacred path. Their shared life is rooted in Earth-based wisdom, Ayurvedic principles, and a profound commitment to remembering our interconnectedness with nature and one another.

Together, they’ve grown a partnership that is alive with kindness, humour, passion, and vision, not because it’s been without challenge, but because they’ve learned how to meet each other in the tender, raw places. Through seasons of transformation, they’ve cultivated the courage to stay present, to listen deeply, and to gently nudge one another toward the fullness of who they are meant to be.

Whether tending the garden, facilitating a ceremony or supporting a couple through a moment of breakthrough, Lorenna and Shantree hold a rare and embodied wisdom, an understanding of sacred union as something not fixed, but alive and always becoming. Learn More

Stories of Transformation

  • “What touched us most was how supported we felt by Lorenna, Shantree, and the group. Nothing felt forced, yet so much opened up. Some of our most meaningful moments happened just walking by the river or sitting together after dinner. You think you know someone and then... We feel back to each other now. Thank you for your enormous care. ~ K & L

  • “We came knowing something between us needed attention, but didn’t know what. Over the six days, we found more tenderness, laughter, and a closeness we didn’t know we were missing. The diverse experiences and spaciousness really helped to rekindle the US again. We truly thank you. ” ~ D & J

  • “We arrived carrying more distance than we wanted to admit. By the end, we felt so different. Having the space and remembering our love was amazing. We left with practical tools, but even more importantly, with a renewed desire to choose each other. Thank you!” ~ A & J

  • “I expected the retreat to help our relationship. I didn't expect it to change how I saw myself within it. Lorenna and Shantree created such a caring space that important things could surface naturally. We are so happy to feel again the love we knew was always there and we are committed to keeping it that way. Thank you both so much. ~ D & S

✺ Frequently Asked Questions ✺

Still Have Questions?

If your hearts feel a gentle pull yet you’re unsure how to answer it, we invite you to connect with us. Share your questions, curiosities, or hesitations. We will listen with care and help you discern whether this journey of love and renewal is the right path for you and your partner.